Ok so I've been slacking and not writing in here, so I've got lots to catch up on.
First I joined Avon - I know it sounds kind of lame, but I grew up on and I still buy Avon. I don't think people really know or appreciate it because it's not deemed "cool" compared to say Sephora. But they are just as good as Sephora with drugstore prices, which is also a plus!
This is only my 1st week so I haven't done much with it as of yet.
Monday I'm cutting my hair - yes it's time again. I have hair ADD and change it quite often.
Yesterday Phil & I stayed on St Pete Beach, we got lots of sun - the weather was great. I tried ShockTop - EWE. I don't know, it tasted like soap to me.
I also saw The Uninvited, it wasn't as scary as the Unborn but it had a good twist ending, which is always a plus.
So here is the good stuff - gotta save the best for last.
So Friday was the first day of the Florida State Fair, and I took my son and Jerry and Stefanie came along. Stefanie didn't have any money (what's new) so Jerry & I chipped in and bough her some tickets so she would ride some rides with us.
Well the other day she was talking about this girl - Lisa Blackwell. This a friend of Stefanie who is married but is super gay at the same time and totally attracted to Stefanie. Stef was telling Phil and I the other day how this girl will like corner in the bathroom and try to get freaky with her at inappropriate times that it makes her feel uncomfortable. Stef also said this girl wants Stef to be her g/f but although Lisa has a husband, Stef isn't allowed to date anyone else. She also apparently gets super jealous at Stef's female friends and doesn't like it when she hangs out with anyone else.
I had never seen this girl, I didn't know who she was, but then she posted some pics. So I had told Stef that I didn't think this girl was very pretty and if she was going to be with someone she could do better. I also said she looked dirty and smelled, because I am a blunt person and that's who I am.
Well apparently Stefanie went and told this girl what I had said. And I'm confused as to why Stefanie wouldn't have came to me and said, you're comment was rude, or it made me mad because, or whatever. But she never addressed it with me, but felt the need to tell this girl what I said. Which is ironic because Stefanie is the biggest shit talker of them all, and if you can't talk shit with a shit talker, then who can you?
The thing is, I will never say anything about someone I wouldn't say to their face and I always own up to what I say. And everyone talks about someone. I don't talk about people I care about, but I'll comment on a broke looking bitch in the club or whatever. We all do. And I really feel like Stefanie was talking shit to this girl, not thinking that it would ever get back to me or whatever because we don't know eachother or pass through any of the same circles.
But I guess it struck a bad cord, and Lisa felt the need to message me on myspace - and this is what she wrote:
From: The Kitty Chaser (360903402)
Date: Feb 11, 2009 9:09 AM
Subject: This si stefs friend...
Hey, I am Lisa Blackwell...Stefanies friend...thought you should know who i was since you decided to talk about me in a nasty way without knowing me...
You shouldnt talk about people you dont know...
I thought I would clear this up with you...You said i was ugly, well i can live with that becuase thats your opinion...But as for you saying that i look dirty and look like I smell... I aint dirty...and i am afraid i dont smell...Thats such a childish thing to say and it says alot about you, I have never said anything bad about you, Have only said nice things about you and appreciate that your a good friend to my friend...
But now i am feeling disrespected...And that aint cool...
Thats whats wrong with people these days they always have something to say about someone before they know them and thats so STUPID!
Well, Have a great day and enjoy your life...
But please if you have anything to say, feel free to say it to me...I am the best person to discuss myself with...
Thanks!!!!!!
Now personally I don't care what people think or say of me, you can't please them all. I think it's funny too because everyone talks their opinions about celebrities and it's ok to say Jessica Simpson is fat, or Britney has greasy hair, without thinking how it affects them, but when it hits close to home its a different story.
Now I have friends who don't like Stefanie, and I don't care or get offended, I just know if I'm hanging out with on or the other and I'm not going to invite one. You can't expect all your friends to get along. So you work around it. But I'm a loyal friend, and the same way I speak my mind, I would expect someone to address a situation like this with me, instead of causing unnecessary drama. And I also felt betrayed, I'm not gonna lie.
So I struck back, at both Lisa and Stefanie. Cause if you're gonna come at me, don't think I'm just going to back down, I'll come back. So this was my response.
o: The Kitty Chaser (360903402)
Date: Feb 11, 2009 10:57 AM
Subject: RE: This si stefs friend...
haha get over it. People will always have something to say about people, that's life. The fact that you actually took time to focus on it rather than let it roll of your back is funny to me. I think it's also ironic because you're acting as if you have NEVER in your life commented about someone else, which is a lie we all do. Stefanie does it all the time. Does that also mean you think she is childish and think the same of her as well? I guess it's only ok if you like that person, which makes you both hypocrites. And I won't lie, I did say that. And maybe I should've have, but I did. Oh well. Life will go on.
Does she also tell you how she tells me she hates going over your house cause you make her feel uncomfortable and corner her in the bathroom when it's time for her to leave? How you get jealous and any of her other female friends? Yea she talks to me about you as well. Like I said, everyone does it, nobody's perfect, that's just the way life is.
Well if you thought she was an angry lesbian before, you should see her now. I kind of wish I could've seen her face when she read that e-mail - talk about PRICELESS!
So she wrote back, in the most mature and professional manner, with the most eloquent of words:
Well, Ill put it to you like this, ever let me see you in the streets and im gonna fuck you up...I will fucking kill you hoe!
Thanks for bringing light to stef talking shit behind my back...becuase the thing is with her, i never talked about her, she just fucked up!
HAHAHAHAHA of course I'm not going to go back and forth with this "girl" so I didn't even reply any more after that.
So needless to say this girl freaked the fuck out and started hounding Stefanie and she didn't know what was going on because I had just rocked both their worlds. Funny thing is, I never heard from Stefanie. She never addressed the situation with me, or explained her side of the story. But to be honest I'm over it and could really care less at this point. Stefanie has maybe 3 girlfriends, because she always seems to fuck things up and no one wants to be her friend, and now I see why. She's a lonely person for a reason, and that's sad.
OH well, my life is great, and I'm still happy and had a great day and the only two people upset and miserable are the ones who chose to be that way, which is poetic justice or karma - however you look at it.
8:49 p.m. - 2009-02-12
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